Saturday, July 9, 2016

Formulae and motivation

Happy with where I am. Following formulae set in daily task.

team that's Supportive and act as a  good back up to each other.  

Perhaps with these support and predictability are the reasons why I feel motivated. 

But honestly am I satisfied? No. 

There are days where aspirations overwhelmed. So much dedication all my speech and Listeners would assume I own the business. 

It is in the line of business that I really want to succeed. That's where the real challenge, independence lies. But I didn't. 
The void still hurts. 

Any wisdom and luck waiting for me. 

Sunday, June 26, 2016

Some amazing findings

I'm going to be judgmental of past 6 weeks. 

Some people are those whom you don't want to be like. Avoiding them like a plague and speak none of them. 

But there are some you want to be like and they deserve somewhat little posts of them. 

He speaks precisely. Very succinct and firm without sounding that rude. He's somewhat able to convince the keen listener smoothly. I hope this traits of his likable among his authorities cos he's driven to the point. Or when it doesn't hope his scarf helps to wipes his sweat. 

She looks sweet, focused but probably has too much of sadness behind her mole chiseled face. Wonder how one knows what each and every of their staff does. Prob that's why she's always occupied with her tab. So far I think I tidak (no in Malay) chance to work with her. Maybe only opportunities to listen during crisis. 

I thought she don't like us. Or maybe she's putting up different persona cos the wave is now on us. But am in awe when she listens to us. So happy when I feel appreciated much. Could only wish my silent prayer is granted but by then the black star would rise somewhere else. She reminds of my previous manager Eve. Mind reader, analytical and quietly alluring. 

No he's not the handsome statue. He is the superman of his own product. So motivated, always on form and people want their thoughts acknowledged by him. One stays much learned with him. In every meal session you will learn something. Gossiping only on the right note has never been differently good. My role model at work. If only I had a sales manager like you...

By the way I Secretly yearn to convince him of my Ideas on why this work and does not work. Hope he doesn't DROP these ideas like Hot Potato. Thanks for your encouragement and persisting me to have lunches with you than the lunch buddy girls. 

Not so little but little woman... I worked the most with you so you deserve a bigger slot here. 

So much is learnt from you. But unfortunately I got mostly B's in where you trained me. 

Love the way you keep mails worded short and succinct. When my frontal lobe style thinking goes otherwise you will come with solutions on how to get the communication better. If I create ideas you probably give life to them by communicating. 

Think, we can as a duo be a good working pair. Sorry I don't have other common topics like fashion and food. But I took an oath of simplicity and be plain Jane. 

Pls stay firm and not get your emotions waver. Difficult for me to trust someone who (unwillingly at times) change tracks. 

Ok ok... I accept that not all are like me in choosing black or white. You choose pinks and other subtle shades of Crimson. 

With these....
A vrai dire peu de paroles

Staying Lean

Finally able to achieve mini targets of my own. Thanks to the superbly bilingual French people giving good Lean sessions. 

Sadly lean doesn't work for all people. Not for those making decisions via frontal lobe... 

Some see some don't see it. I choose to quietly see it and achieve it. 




Monday, January 27, 2014

Friday, October 18, 2013

Being 20 in 30s



12 Money Concepts You Should Master Before Turning 30


Turning 30 is a big milestone in your life. You're making your goodbyes to young adulthood and slowly coming into your own. With age comes great responsibilities, and at the top of your list should be taking charge of your money.

Oh, come on, that's no fun, you might think. However, even though personal finance can be a dry topic, it's undeniable that our finances play a huge role in our lives — money is always one of the top stressors, and it causes the biggest discord among couples.
To help you get on track, here's what you ideally should have achieved by age 30. Of course, these goals aren't for everyone and may not be feasible for many, so try to keep them in mind as general guidelines.


  1. You should already have an emergency fund. Experts generally recommend six months' worth of living expenses, but some say a year's worth is a better buffer to account for things like medical emergencies or unemployment.
  2. You should be anticipating, preparing, and saving up for big expenditures. For example, you should factor in your wedding, a house, children, a pet, and other similar major expenses. By planning for these events, you'll be adjusting your lifestyle to afford your future expenses and avoid going into debt for these items. You may want to budget a realistic amount so you don't have to go into debt. Another thought is to forgo some of these expenses — really question if it's a necessity.
  3. You should have mastered the art of automating. Sending a chunk of your cash automatically to your savings every month means you're paying yourself first.
  4. You should know how to live within your means but enjoy life at the same time. You should be able to prioritize what's worth spending on and save in other areas so you can enjoy your guilty pleasures. Even if it's daily lattes, you should indulge yourself as long as you're aggressively cutting costs on other items. Remember, what other people skimp on may not be what you would want to give up.
  5. You should be maxing out (or, at the very least, meeting your employer's match for) your 401k.
  6. You should be investing in a Roth IRA.
  7. You should have prepared a will.
  8. You should be paying off and prioritizing your high-interest debt.
  9. During your 20s, you should be trying to raise your credit score.
  10. You should already have some practice with negotiation — with salary, with service providers, and more. 
  11. Fidelity recommends having a retirement fund that's equivalent to your annual salary by age 35. At age 30, you should be on track for that.
  12. You should already have read a couple of personal finance books. To start with, check out Your Money or Your Life ($12) and Total Money Makeover ($18).

Saturday, July 27, 2013

Thursday, December 6, 2012

A New Milestone

I can only write a blog when I'm facing extreme of emotions. Coming back after almost half a year means I'm nearing an important milestone.

It is time that I have to believe that Knights and Saviors do exist. On 21st Jul 2008, I thought my first ever car Kia Cerato Forte was my knight. But its a car, desired by many and that subject is achievable by many too. It can leave you or even make you leave the world.

In fact today, I've seen my knight in person.
*The man who faces the south, the direction towards final phase of any living organism, who brings an ending, which leads to a change, a reincarnation, NEW Birth and beginning of my life.
If ignorance has a human form, let that be me. May I just be that demon, the demon of ignorance who had all along went through illed moments because of that very IGNORANCE, killed by the man facing the south.

Today is the moment I'll stand tall eventually. Living the dream I dream of because of this Knight facing the south. Without you I'm meaningless... Thank You Lord. Thank You Baby...

And am renaming my blog to DaNi NiDa. ( portmanteau of our names)

* Dakshinamurti literally means 'one who is facing south (dakṣiṇa)' in Sanskrit. South is the direction of Death, hence change.[5] In every Siva temple the stone image of Dakshinamurthy is installed, facing south, on the southern circumaA mbulatory path around the sanctum sanctorum. Perhaps, of all Hindu Gods, he is the only one sitting facing south. The great seer Ramana Maharshi, has said in letter 89: one meaning of Dakshina is efficient; another meaning is ‘in the heart on the right side of the body’; Amurthy ’means Formlessness' . "Dakshinamurthy Stotra" in Sanskrit, means the "Shapelessness situated on the right side".

Indian tradition accords a special reverence to the Guru or the teacher. Dakshinamurthy, in the Hindu system of beliefs is regarded as the ultimate Guru - the embodiment of knowledge and the destroyer of ignorance (as represented by the demon being crushed under the feet of the deity). The Jnana Mudra is interpreted in this way:- The thumb denotes the God and the index finger denotes the man. The other three fingers stand for the three congenital impurities of man viz. arrogance, illusion and bad deeds of the past births


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